A Woman in love...

A woman in love… This is probably the most romanticized version of a woman’s being. Rightfully so! When Frank Loesser wrote the song around this theme, way back in 1955 for a broad way musical, he redefined popularity. Barbara Streisand and Bon Jovi followed it up with versions of their own. Here is mine. Not in the same league by miles, nevertheless, read on…

When a woman falls in love, you cannot expect her to be reasonable. Else, she wouldn’t be in love at all. (I stole this line) (Blush)

Women are often made out to be these complicated creatures, almost impossible to understand. I beg to differ. Well… No I don’t beg… I simply differ (smile). Women in love are the simplest to figure out. They are difficult to manage, but that’s for another article (wink). When a woman falls in love, everything about her changes; correction, almost everything about her changes. Wonder why! Have you no control woman?!?!? (Sigh)

What changes, you will ask me?!? Well…Her body language, her responses, the way she walks, talks, sleeps… almost everything. Some women are soft, most are obvious. But there is change, yes, no disputing that one (wink). A woman in love, loves staring at her man, in sidelong glances (when he is not looking at her ofcourse), she plays with her hair, she touches her face often, she smiles more, sits with her legs crossed, some subtle, some bold, but the hints are out there. But these are trivialities, very superficial. A woman’s love digs deep, and to keep a woman in love is tougher than getting her to fall in love.

A woman in love will do almost anything for her man to feel the same for her. Right becomes wrong, wrong becomes right. There is nothing that will stop her from getting what she wants, and once she gets you, there is no stopping what she wants (Diamonds & pearls I mean… wink). Life becomes a lot brighter, and every small triviality becomes important. She is more submissive than ever, and gives in to her man’s every whim and fancy. This is not to be confused for meek docility people, its love. She wants to give you what you want, and doesn’t care about what you have to offer. Not yet! (wink)… I keep digressing…

To keep a woman in love, to make her fall in love with you, is a fairly simple task, if you ask me. Make her feel special, re-enforce your love & support, dream with her, let her walk into your world, listen to her, and appreciate what she does for you. Share her dreams, support her, and you will be astonished at how soon you will become an integral part of all her dreams & ambitions. Flipside is, women will be chatty; this is the biggest facet of their love life (or their life as a whole), don’t ask me why, people tell me I talk too much. She will be overtly demanding, of your time & attention, don’t blame her, poor thing, she just wants you around! It can be suffocating, but there is a work-around. Good news is, this madness will eventually pass.

Simply give her that time, attention and interest. Tender loving care, harmless tricks & humor, and a few words of praise will do the trick. Women are silly creatures; they will fall in love, again & again & again… sometimes with the same man!